| Living in a Dream or Living without a Dream? What is the difference? Submitted by: Nil Celen
Living in a Dream or Living without a Dream? What is the difference?
Our dream or others' dream, any way we live in a dream. The only difference is the one who chooses the dream.
I always prefer driver's seat instead of being a passenger. When driving, I have the control of movements and the destination. I can also decide to choose a short cut or change the destination. I have control over everything. It is my car, my destination and my dream.
On the other hand, if you are a passenger, you can only watch the view through the window. You go where the driver prefers. You cannot stop the car to take a break or decide to change the route. Everything is out of your control. You have to follow the rules of the driver. This is the driver's car and destination.
Are you only the reflections of others?
You have to make decisions every day. There are ordinary decisions, like having a tea or coffee. Other decisions can be more important like choosing your spouse or career. You can let others to choose for you, what to drink but you cannot let them choose your career or spouse.
Everyone have dreams for others they are connected. Your parents, teachers, friends, your boss and even your enemies-you are lucky if you know who they are- have dreams for you. They all want to see you somewhere they prefer.
People reflect their dreams to others. It is not always a bad thing if it is only advice. You can need guidance sometimes. When these advices become decisions, you will also become the reflections of others. They decide the destination for you and you will start to swim with the stream. Generally, others' dream does not fit you and you do not feel comfortable.
One day, when you achieve their dreams, you will not feel as satisfied or happy, as you should be. What happens then? They can help you to standup when you fall but they cannot take away the pain of falling. You are alone to heal yourself. You have to take yourself out of disappointment and unhappiness of the dreams of other people.
Are you living in a dream or reality?
Are you living in a real world without dreams? Reality is limited with the perception of the environment. Do you think that your brain treat every information the same way? The ratio of the information treated, can be different between people but never 100% reality. Brain also has limited energy and it makes predictions to decrease the use of energy to process information.
Do you still think that you know the whole reality around you?
If we are not living the 100% reality, why should not we live our dreams?
Decide to live in your dream before you start to live in others.
· You should know what you want
· You should decide who you would become
· You should have a dream about your future
Sometimes, living in your dream or dreaming about the future may seem harder than it is. You will always feel others reflections and you can have bias to accept them instead of your dreams.
You should start to dream for yourself immediately. Do not panic, there is always a way.
'Maybe' List
When you cannot connect the pieces in your mind, it is better to categorize them. Categorize the things you are interested in or you are passionate about. Finding out your passion is the best way to achieve your dreams. Passion is the easiest way to follow.
A maybe list will give you an idea about what your dream can be without limiting the possibilities.
· A 'maybe' list helps to discover your dreams.
· An 'exactly' list determines how to achieve your dreams.
You must keep in mind that you do not have much control on how to achieve your dreams but you have the whole control about the dream itself.
When the 'maybe' list is long, colorful and full of your passions, you will see the destination you want more clearly. This will help you notice all the opportunities to achieve your dream without limiting the possibilities.
Make your list and share your ideas with us. Only a word, from your list can inspire and motivate others to discover their passions.
About Author: Nil Celen is an investigator for the proofs of 'Mind Power' and how to improve it, based on scientific resources. People reflect their dreams to others. If you do not have your own dreams, you become the reflections of others. One day, when you achieve their dreams, you will not feel as satisfied or happy, as you should be. What happens then? If you want to succeed in life, you should improve self-confidence, decision making, motivation, goal setting and mind power. Change your point of view with scientific researches about these subjects with Scientific Proofs of Mind Power Article Source: ArticlesAlley.com |
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Living in a Dream or Living without a Dream?
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Real Assets mean your wealth compounds and grows – without you working for it!
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| Personal Development Article: Real Assets Submitted by: Oli Real Assets mean your wealth compounds and grows – without you working for it! I was trained as a Chartered Accountant (CPA) and I still hold that qualification. I also have a first class honors degree in Accountancy. So you could say I was well qualified to give advice on accounting. However, what you are taught in: • School accounting classes; • Small business classes; • University accounting classes; • On the job accounting and book keeping; is almost exactly the opposite of what you and I need to know about our own personal finances. For you and I accounting for our own personal finances is simple: A real asset is anything that: • Puts money into your bank account; or • Increases in value; or • Is cash; or • A cash equivalent. • A liability is anything that takes money out of your bank account. Sounds simple doesn’t it? So you shouldn’t be surprised when I tell you: • Your car is a liability. • Your home is a liability. • Your boat is a liability. • Your holiday house is a liability. • Your TV is a liability. • Your pool is a liability. • Your mobile phone is a liability. • Your pet is a liability. • Your household furniture and furnishings are a liability. • Your hobbies are a liability. • Your vacations are a liability. All of these cost you money. They all take money out of your bank account. Even if some of them don’t do it every week (e.g. your furniture), they all need to be replaced, so over time they cost you money. It is vitally important we realize these are real liabilities that are causing huge amounts of money to disappear from our lives. You might rightly argue that some of these are necessary for living and I agree with you. But almost everyone in the industrialized world falls into the trap of buying bigger and more expensive than they need. And then of course acquiring all of the other paraphernalia we don’t actually need. You only get to spend money once! Tip #1 Your Assets Write out on a piece of paper or a spreadsheet all of the Real Assets you own. You might be surprised to realize you have none or very few. But that is a great realization and a good place to start. Tip #2 Your Liabilities Calculate how much your Real Liabilities are costing you every week, every month, every year. You are likely to be shocked how much money is pouring out of your bank account to pay for all of your liabilities. Tip #3 Make a Change Make a radical change now so that you store up wealth for your future. Change your expenditure from funding liabilities to buying real assets that will continue to gain in value over the years. This change could literally lift your level of future wealth by hundreds of thousands of dollars. About Author: Oli Hille, author of 'Creating the Perfect Lifestyle', a self help book to help people achieve the perfect lifestyle they desire. It is rated as the 'Must have book of the century' by International book reviewer Midwest Book Review USA). For more information, please visit: http://www.LifestyleBook.com Article Source: ArticlesAlley.com |
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Wealth is the ability to fully experience life.
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- Henry David Thoreau
When you don't have a whole lot of money, it can be easy to forget that true wealth goes oh, so far beyond just mere money because you're so hot and heavy in pursuit of it.
That's actually great news, because it means that you don't have to wait until you're flush with cash and have multiple cash cows to begin experiencing wealth. You can enjoy at least some of it NOW.
You already know that visualization can be a powerful tool in motivating yourself to accomplish your goals. What I have found is that giving yourself fulfilling experiences NOW can help you with creating some pretty visualization that will help you get there.
For starters, take some time out to enjoy some form of luxury on a regular basis. I don't care if you have to save up money for months in order to do it. It is important that you 1) carpe' diem - sieze the day and live as though you don't know how much time you have left, because you don;t! 2) place yourself into scenes and experiences that mimic what the experience of your life will be like after all your hard work has made your dream into a reality.
Another component of this is watching after your health. All the money in the world won't do you a bit of good without great health. It is your health that will largely determine what your quality of life will be at any income level.
Take care of your health. Take time to kick back and relax. Spend some time with those you love. Take a portion of what you've earned and give it away to someone less fortunate than yourself. That is experiencing wealth.
Redefining your definition of what true wealth is will not only help you to enjoy it better when you reach your goals, but it will also enable you to enjoy some of its simple joys long before you even get to that point.
Lawrence Cole is the creator of The Multi-Million Dollar Mindset. The Multi-Million Dollar Mindset shows you how to discover ways to become rich, how to start a business, and how to join
the wealth builders at http://www.multimilliondollarmindset.com using Rich Dad Poor Dad principles.
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Wealth Creation - How It Can Work For You
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While many people interested in using the law of attraction work on thinking positive, creating wealth thoughts, they sometimes forget about an idea called the power of vibration. This is the act of ensurin
If you want to use the power of attraction for creating wealth then it's critical to build not only a wealth attraction mindset but to generate wealth attraction emotions. Once you stop contradicting your law of abundance strategy with wealth-repelling emotions you can begin to build the financial and inner well-being you want. When the emotions support the thoughts, you'll soon notice that you're manifesting wealth. In fact, at first you might be tempted to chalk up the good things to coincidence. But if you continue to generate positive thoughts and emotions, you'll soon find that those good things coming your way aren't coincidences-they're the start of your new and improved way of life.
Wealth attraction is the result of our thoughts, our actions, and our emotions. When these are consistent we can start creating wealth. The first step in developing the right thoughts, actions, and emotions is to recognize the things you might do to sabotage your wealth creation plan. Once you pinpoint that negative energy, you can redirect your attention to generating the positive energy that triggers wealth creation.
Generating positive thoughts is much easier than generating positive emotions, especially when the mortgage is past due or a huge, unexpected tax bill appears in the mail box. Yet it's those positive emotions that attract the wealth and well-being you're seeking.
One way to reinforce positive emotions is to develop a memory bank filled to the brim with events in which you felt powerful and confident. Perhaps you'll remember when you earned first place in a school competition. Maybe you'll recall how you felt when you made your first sale at work. When you feel emotions turning sour, redirect them to mirror how you felt during those positive events filed in your memory bank.
Your wealth creation mindset is based on creating the right balance between your focused attentions and manifesting abundance emotions with allowing circumstances to unfold and keeping a healthy emotional state. It sounds like a contradiction: try to change your life and be content with what you have. But by being content while you're striving for change you'll generate the positive energy that will give you a different future-one that's more positive than your past and more ideal for wealth creation.
It doesn't matter what kind of challenges you might be facing now. Using a wealth attraction mindset and living happily will manifest abundance, wealth, and all the good things you deserve. Put the power of attraction to work for you by striking the balance between creating wealth and the life you want and enjoying the life you have.
Dr. Rafael Cornelio is an expert at teaching people like you the secrets to
attracting abundance. For a FREE electrifying report called "Wealth Attraction Guide: 30-Day Money-Making Mind Set Program", please visit:
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